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As I write this article, my mind is racing since I have several phone
messages to respond to, the phone has just interrupted me for the fourth
time, I have a meeting at noon, another at 6:30pm and many demands that
required my attention yesterday! This is a typical day in the life of
a Lyford Cay Scholar since we have all been placed in positions of authority,
respect and responsibility. It doesnt surprise me since we have
graduated from some of the finest educational institutions and all thrive
on success regardless of our varying definitions.
Some of us also have church, social and family commitments and cant
envision adding another engagement to our already overwhelmed schedules
since we do want to have A LIFE!
Well as I write I have to actually STOP! and EXHALE! and wonder if I want
my life to look like a magnet for appointments, commitments, etc. and
have no time for communing, reflecting and being less self-absorbed.
For a year the Lyford Cay Scholars Association (with the dedication of
a few) has sought to bring life into a body that has good ideals with
a solid vision but yet no oomph. Those who have attended meetings have
agreed to the ideals, but we cant seem to awaken from our Rip
Van Winkle state and I include myself in this category.
Like so many good things in our society, these ideals are being placed
on the back burner of our minds because we are too busy. Girl
Guides, Sunday School, Boys Brigade, etc. are reporting decreased membership.
Families arent sitting down to eat meals together. Ulcers and stress-related
disorders are on the rise. My question is, when will it end? I propose
that it end with us.
As Lyford Cay Scholars, we have to take the time to remember the value
of good ideals this is what got us to college, through college
and to our relevant successes. I have to make the commitment of spending
that hour at the LCSA meeting in order to reconnect with the ideal that
success is a journey and not a destination!
We can all achieve so much if we take the time to not be too busy. When
we get the next phone call or e-mail about the next LCSA meeting, lets
not be too busy. Promise?
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